Let’s be real for a second. Having your photo taken can feel super weird.
Most people don’t wake up in the morning thinking, “I can’t wait to be in front of a camera today!” In fact, if you’re like most of the couples I work with, you’ve probably said something along the lines of “We’re so awkward,” or “We’re not very photogenic.” And you know what? That’s totally normal.
We’re not all models. We don’t spend our days posing for Vogue. So yeah—it makes sense that the idea of holding hands, kissing, or cuddling in front of a camera might feel a little uncomfortable at first (especially with a stranger following you around). That’s why I believe it’s my job—not yours—to make sure you feel good.
I’m here to guide you every step of the way. I’ll tell you where to stand, what to do with your hands, and how to move naturally so it doesn’t feel forced. I’ll check in with you constantly—“Does this feel weird?” If it does, we’ll switch it up. I got you.
And just between us? I consider myself pretty unphotogenic too. So trust me, I totally get it. My whole goal is to make this feel more like a fun date and less like a photoshoot. By the end of it, you’ll forget the camera’s even there.
before the session: let’s make a plan
A lot of the magic in a photo session starts before I even pull out the camera. One of the best ways to avoid that “what do we do with our hands?!” feeling is to go into your session feeling prepared and comfortable. And that’s where I come in.
1. Choose a location that reflects who you are.
One of the first questions I’ll ask is whether you already have a spot in mind. And if you don’t? No stress—I’ve got you. I’ll ask a few simple questions to help us figure out what makes the most sense for you as a couple.
Are you the type to get dressed up and go out for a fancy dinner downtown? Perfect—we can plan something that feels like date night in the city. Or maybe you’re more laid-back—jeans, t-shirts, backyard hangs. Great! Let’s keep it cozy and natural in a spot that feels like home.
It’s all about capturing you—not some Pinterest version of you. So we’ll find the right place, together.
2. Pick outfits that feel natural and confident.
You don’t have to overthink this—promise. The goal isn’t to match perfectly or look like someone you’re not. The goal is to feel good and look like yourself. If you’re constantly adjusting something or stressing over what you’re wearing, it’ll show up in the photos. So wear what makes you feel confident, comfortable, and true to your style.
I’ll send you a full outfit guide with tons of tips and examples. You won’t be on your own.
3. Connect with the right photographer (hi, that’s me).
TBH, it’s hard to relax in front of a complete stranger. That’s why I always try to connect with my couples before shoot day. Whether it’s a quick call, some texts back and forth, or the fact that I did your grad photos a while back—anything that helps us build some familiarity is a win.
I’m pretty extroverted and love getting people to laugh, feel comfortable, and genuinely enjoy the experience. I’ll guide you through everything, and I’ll always let you know what’s coming next so you’re never left wondering what to do.
Something I always say: It’s okay if it feels weird. Sometimes I’ll prompt you to do something that sounds a little silly—but those moments usually lead to the most genuine, joy-filled photos. And if anything ever feels off, just say the word! I’ll never take it personally. We’ll just pivot and try something new. Easy as that.
during the session: prompts over poses, always
Once we’re actually in the session, my number one goal is to help you forget that a camera is even there. Because here’s the thing: overly stiff, posed photos? Not my vibe—and probably not yours either. The magic happens when you’re moving, laughing, and just being yourselves.
1. I use prompts, not poses.
Instead of placing you in a super specific stance and saying something like, “okay, now look into each other’s eyes,” I’ll give you a prompt—something fun or sweet to do together that creates real connection and movement.
Like:
- “Grab their face and give them a bunch of tiny kisses all over.”
- “Hold hands and walk toward, but bump hips as you go.”
- “Wrap them up in a and spin them around.”
These kinds of prompts give you a general idea of what I’m looking for—but also give you space to make it your own. And that’s what keeps your photos feeling real and natural.
2. Movement is your best friend.
You don’t have to stand still and smile the whole time—I promise. Some of the most joy-filled, candid moments come from movement-based prompts. I might have you run up behind your partner and surprise them, or chase them like you’re in a rom-com. The goal is to create moments that feel like you—not like you’re on a magazine shoot.
Real moments over perfect posing. Every single time.
3. Feeling self-conscious? Totally normal.
If you ever start to feel awkward or unsure mid-session—say the word. I’ll check in with you often, show you a few sneak peeks on my camera to reassure you, and remind you just how great you’re doing. And if we need to pause for a second? That’s totally fine too. You’re never “on” the entire time. We can take breaks, catch our breath, shake it out—whatever you need.
This experience is about you enjoying the moment just as much as the photos. I’ll be right there the whole way, hyping you up and making sure you feel supported.
after the session: reliving the moment
When the session is over, I hope you walk away thinking, “Okay, that was actually so fun.” That’s the feedback I hear most often—“We had such a great time,” or “That felt way less awkward than we expected!” And honestly? That might be the best compliment I can receive.
I never want your session to feel stiff or forced. I want it to feel like a little date night—where you got to laugh, be goofy, get a little cuddly, and make some core memories together. I’m just there to tag along and document it all.
The Editing: True-to-Color, But Just a Little Better
When it comes to editing, I like to keep things as real and true-to-you as possible—just a little more magical. Think dreamy lighting, soft tones, and a tiny bit of cinematic flair. Your photos should still look like you—just on your best day.
I also always include a few black-and-white images in every gallery. There’s just something timeless and romantic about them that adds even more emotion to the story we’re telling.
The Delivery: Your Story, in a Beautiful Online Gallery
I won’t lie—I get so excited to deliver your final gallery. Honestly, sometimes I think I’m more excited than my couples! I love showing you the final result and giving you a glimpse of how beautiful your connection looks from the outside.
When I hit send on that gallery link, it’s more than just photos. It’s your story—your inside jokes, your quiet moments, your playful energy—frozen in time for you to relive over and over again.
